Phyllis Mae Rudd, beloved mother, grandmother, and great-grandmother, passed away peacefully on February 17, 2025, in Stillwater, Oklahoma. Born on September 16, 1939, in Perry, Oklahoma, Phyllis lived a life filled with warmth and joy, touching the hearts of everyone who had the privilege of knowing her.
A proud graduate of Perry High School in the spring of 1957, Phyllis embarked on a career as an administrator, showcasing her dedication and professionalism in the insurance business. Her commitment to her work was only surpassed by her devotion to her family. As a sweet, fun-loving, and warm-hearted individual, she created a nurturing environment where her loved ones could thrive.
Phyllis is survived by her children, Marvin Dwayne Hotson and wife Cheryl Hotson of Perry, OK, and Brenda Diana (Hotson) ZumMallen and husband Robert ZumMallen of Pueblo, CO.
She took immense pride in her grandchildren, including Dennis Hotson of Stillwater, OK, Jason Hotson and wife Brenda of Perry, OK, Aron Hotson and wife Stephanie of Hopkinsville, KY, Sheena Hotson of Tulsa, and Darreal Williams of Norman, OK, whose lineage continues to flourish.
The legacy of Phyllis lives on through her great-grandchildren: Colton Gunnar Hotson of OKC, OK; Levi Hotson and wife Lyric of Perry, OK; Trenton Hotson of Perry, OK; Brianna Hotson Chantnacran and husband George of Perry, OK; and Caydence Hotson and Donavan Hotson of Hopkinsville, KY, Preston Drennan and Curtis Flick of KY, and River Williams of Holdenville, OK, Kaidence Williams-Spear of Lawton, OK , and Cayson Schneider of Perry, OK.
Phyllis's family tree continues to grow, with great-great-grandchildren that include Evelyn and Aiden Hotson of Perry, OK, Remi and Ryleigh Lou Hotson of Perry, OK, and Luka Chantnacran of Perry, OK. Each branch of her family held a special place in her heart, and her spirit will forever resonate in their lives.
Phyllis was preceded in death by her father, Joe Marvin Cermak, and her mother, Irene Mae Cermak (maiden name Ryan), as well as her beloved partner, Melvin Ekstrom. She also mourned the loss of her son, James Darrell Hotson. Each of these individuals left an indelible mark on her life, and their memories will remain cherished within the family she adored.
Phyllis Mae Rudd embodied a joyous spirit, and her life was a testament to love and resilience. She was an avid knitter and crocheter who produced some of the most striking crocheted and knitted items. Phyllis enjoyed sewing and making beautiful quilts for her family. She will be deeply missed by her family and friends, but her legacy of kindness and devotion will continue to shine brightly through the generations that follow.
Friends are invited to attend the graveside service for Phyllis on Saturday, March 8, 2025, at 10 a.m. at the Bohemian Cemetery outside of Perry, Oklahoma. Flowers may be sent to Brown Dugger of Perry.
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